Being a type A person, patience is definitely not my strong suit. I’m a pretty impatient person (my husband would laugh, saying that ‘pretty impatient’ is an understatement). I truly don’t understand how those B types work. My younger brother, however, is a type B personality to a T-one of the most laid-back people I know. Here’s how we differ. When I was on the phone with him one night, he was sitting in the Walmart parking lot and he told me that my fifteen-year-old niece just came back to the car from shopping and had lost his debit card. In the most peaceful, nonchalant way, he tells her “well, Jordan, that’s why I didn’t want you to take my card” and then remaining completely calm and unhurried, tells me he’s going to have to go inside and look for it. There was not an ounce of anger or frustration in his bones. I laughed when I got off the phone with him, thinking wow, I so would not do that. I’d be kinda freaking out. My impatient self would have been in the store already frantically running all over the place looking for it. We are total opposites, as you can see. I am not patient like that, but I’m really trying.
It’s a weakness God has been working with me on for quite awhile now and I’m definitely seeing the fruit of it, just not as quickly as I’d like (haha). I really don’t like waiting, but it seems that the more I hate it, the longer I have to wait, because God is going to teach me this lesson. And it’s not so much about the actual wait, as it is my attitude in the waiting. That’s even more difficult. And as for learning this lesson, it’s just a matter of how long it will actually take due to my willingness. So, I try to roll with it and accept it, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t hard. Since I’m more aware of my impatient nature than ever, I thought I’d dive into the Bible and see what He has to say about it. He tells us how to be patient. Here are 10 things we can learn about patience from His Word:
*Be patient in affliction
We will have trouble in this world, but He says to be patient in affliction, so when we are experiencing distress, we endure it and we accept it for the time being. It doesn’t mean it will be easy, or that it will last forever, but patiently accepting our suffering, will help us grow to be more like Him.
Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. -Romans 12:12
*Be patient, bearing with one another in love
Be patient with family members, friends, the grocery store worker scanning groceries at a sloth’s pace, the guy flying past you on the road flipping the bird, the neighbor that drives you absolutely bonkers, your worst enemy. Let’s look at each person who crosses our paths, as there to teach and grow us. Be patient with everyone you come into contact with, so you can show the love of Christ. This will glorify Him and it will help us to live more peaceable lives.
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. -Ephesians 4:2
*Love endures with patience
Love is an action and one way we can love on people, is to show patience. Patience isn’t needed when life is easy, it’s the stressful times and under some of the toughest circumstances, where we are given chances to show love by being tolerant. Let’s look at our stressful moments as opportunities to live more like Christ, rather than just struggles to wade through while getting to the other side.
Love endures with patience and serenity, love is kind and thoughtful, and is not jealous or envious; love does not brag and is not proud or arrogant. -1 Corinthians 13:4 (AMP)
*Wait patiently for Him
We quiet ourselves before the Lord, and in the waiting, we put every piece of ourselves and others into His care. Then without worry, we trust Him to move in His time.
Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; do not fret when people succeed in their ways,when they carry out their wicked schemes. -Psalm 37:7
*Patience brings peace
Will you be a peace-maker or will you stir up strife? Will you put the fire out or will you fuel it? A calm attitude with self-restraint will help bring about peace, rather than stoke the flames.
Hot tempers cause arguments, but patience brings peace. -Proverbs 15:18
*We wait patiently in hope
I love how the amplified Bible translates Romans 8:25-we wait eagerly with composure-eagerly meaning we wait expectantly. And when we can’t see what’s ahead, we still hope with anticipation, while using self-control and not allowing our worry or emotions to run amuck.
But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait eagerly for it with patience and composure. -Romans 8:25 (AMP)
*Whoever is patient has great understanding
The wise are slow to anger and keep their emotions in check, showing self-control. Don’t be a fool and fly off the handle. Before I homeschooled, my daughter’s fourth grade teacher taught her something invaluable that I, in turn, learned as well. She taught her class a saying that she lives by and I just cherish this teaching! Whenever frustration, anger or impatience arises, let’s remind ourselves to: PAUSE*BREATH*LOVE.
Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly. -Proverbs 14:29
*Better a patient person than a warrior
Again, this is about having self-control. And for some of us that grew up fighting our way through life, this may be harder to do than others, especially if we’ve endured trauma. Letting anger take over though, will defeat us in the end. It is better to step back and show self-restraint, than soldier on.
Better a patient person than a warrior, one with self-control than one who takes a city. -Proverbs 16:32
*As God’s Chosen people, clothe yourselves in patience
As believers in Jesus, we were chosen to glorify Him and so we need to suit up, wearing the traits he instructs us to put on-compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. And if we struggle with some of these? He tells us in His Word that when we remain in the Vine, we will bear much fruit-these traits He calls us to clothe ourselves with. And all of these traits really work together. Being patient can be a humble act and a form of kindness. And in showing patience, a gentle answer or attitude can go a long way in keeping the peace. So, let’s become more like Him, by remaining in Him, and in doing so, we can fulfill the duty we’ve been given.
Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. -Colossians 3:12
*Patience is better than pride
Pride causes more damage than good. Let’s therefore set aside our pride, ending matters before they start by patiently humbling ourselves.
The end of a matter is better than its beginning, and patience is better than pride. -Ecclesiastes 7:8
10 thoughts on “Clothe Yourselves in Patience”
I think the world we live in has made patience such a difficult thing to cultivate. We all want things and we expect that we can have them now. It’s hard to just slow down and appreciate what we actually have.
This is so very true! I 💯 % agree! I almost crave a slower paced life after running in the rat race for so long and burning out! At the same time though, I still struggle with patience ☺️
I blame internet shopping. There was a time when you had to order through catalogues and you could wait about three weeks for your stuff to arrive. There was none of this next day delivery!!!
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Haha! So true! Darn Amazon prime!
I love the depth of Scripture you have shared here, thank you! Most folks, myself definitely included, if we are being honest need some work in the patience-department.
It has been suggested that when we feel impatient about something, we ought to first look inward to assess why we are feeling this way. I know that when I practice this, I find most of my angst is caused because my schedule/way/wants are being delayed in ways I hadn’t expected. This usually brings me back humbly before God, seeking His forgiveness (again) for allowing my will to supplant His.
Thank you! All glory to Him!
Yes! My expectations often are the cause of my impatience! I expect things to go a certain way or within a specific time frame and when they don’t, my impatience rears it’s ugly head. I need to work more on releasing my expectations because expectations are a form of selfishness too. Great reminder of where the angst comes from!
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I learned patience. I told someone once that when ever I prayed God give me patience, He sent me to Walmart. Thing is, my witness is important to me, most folks we pass don’t talk to us, but they see us. Our actions are our witness. I realized that when I would act and speak in impatience it was destroying my witness. That was one big step toward the more patient attitude, but I do still have to consciously work on it and pay attention in the rough moments. Thank you for this.
Excellent insight Rebecca! Love this part-“our actions are our witness”. This is a great reminder about the importance of showing patience! ❤️
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Amen, this message came at the right time for me. There is so much going on around us, and we need to clothe ourselves with patience. Patience bears the endless fruit we need so we can thrive and flourish amid of storms of life. Thank you, Aimee, for available yourself to be of use by the Holy Spirit.
I’m so glad! Praise God! Digging in and seeing what He had to say about patience was what I needed too!
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